The Impact of Discipleship in Small Groups
What does it mean to be in the presence of men who are followers of Jesus in a small group setting? Almost without exception, it reminds me of a crucial truth: I must spend time daily talking with—not just to—Jesus and reading His Word. This pursuit must be intentional, regular, and foundational to my faith and discipleship.
A close friend of mine, a devoted member of our local congregation in his sixties, frequently asks, "What does God want you to do?" His question reminds us that our relationship with Jesus must be actively nurtured. He encourages those around him to seek God's counsel and build their faith through His Word.
A Lifelong Pursuit of Discipleship
Being in a Christ-centered small group reinforces that there is no graduation or arrival date in our walk with Jesus; discipleship is a lifelong journey. On February 27, 2025, I was reminded of this truth by a long-time friend who recently turned eighty. Despite his age, he remains deeply engaged in ministry and discipleship, welcoming others into the process with him.
During a regular breakfast gathering with fellow believers, he shared a testimony of God’s provision, his personal doubts, and the affirmation that God’s goodness is not a result of his works or righteousness but of divine grace. His humility and gratitude when sharing this testimony served as a powerful encouragement.
Accountability and Authentic Community
Growing closer to other men who follow Jesus means surrounding yourself with people who care enough to correct, challenge, and encourage you. True accountability requires time—time spent together in meaningful conversation, in community, and in genuine fellowship. This depth of relationship cannot be confined to a church building; it must extend into coffee shops, homes, and shared meals.
For decades, I understood the importance of small group discipleship, but it wasn’t until the past ten years that I began prioritizing it with honest effort. Whether one-on-one or in small groups of up to nine men, these gatherings have been where I have grown the most in my faith and where my desire to grow has been most deeply stirred.
The Next Steps: Discipling and Replicating
Moving forward, my goal is twofold: first, to intentionally disciple another man who will replicate the process within 18 to 24 months; and second, to see this model replicated among youth and college-aged men. Discipleship is not just about personal growth but equipping others to carry the mission forward, ensuring that each generation continues to walk in faith and build Christ-centered communities.
The call to discipleship is clear. Will we answer it?
